Welcoming trials as friends and being a friend in trials - Midweek Message 27th January 2021
Dear Friends,
When all kinds of trials and
temptations crowd into your lives my brothers, don’t resent them as intruders,
but welcome them as friends! Realise that they come to test your faith and to
produce in you the quality of endurance. (James 1.2-3 JB Phillips)
I recently listened to a small group of Christian people relating some of the hardships they have encountered over lockdown and was struck by the variety of things that were mentioned: everything from the daily relentless demands of having school age children, and younger, at home; to health issues; to temptations to laziness and eating the wrong things; to the frustration of not being unable to sing Christmas carols; to coping with painful bereavement. Each of these would readily come under the category of ‘all kinds of trials and temptations’ that James speaks of in the opening verses of his letter (from JB Phillips paraphrase). I’m sure you could add to that lockdown list and probably with your additions, you would also echo the theme that was regularly repeated alongside these different trials and temptations and which compounded them, namely, the inability to meet and speak with others, especially in the context of the church family. There was, and is, that ongoing and aching sense of separation and isolation.
Given all of that, it would not be difficult to resent
all these different trials and temptations as intruders and it could
sound crazy and masochistic to welcome them as friends and yet,
as we were considering last Sunday, that is what the Lord Jesus through his
servant James ( see James 1.1) calls his followers to do. On Sunday, we looked at 3 reasons
from what James says as to why you might do that:
a) what trials (in the hands of God’s good though sometimes hidden
purposes) produce in us
b) where they point us,
c) what they expose in us
(if you haven’t listened to the sermon, you
can do so here)
However, in the wake of both James’ words and listening to these
fellow Christians speaking of their own personal trials in lockdown, two
further things came to my mind to bring to yours.
Firstly, at the beginning of Sunday’s sermon I quoted from
an article Joni Eareckson had written about the process of her coming to accept
and embrace the deep and painful trial of her disability as being part of God’s
mysterious and yet good purpose for her life. In that article she mentioned prayer, deep study
of God’s Word and the encouragement and support of Christian friends coming
alongside her, as being vital factors in enabling her to welcome the trial of
her disability as a friend, rather than resenting it as an intruder. Significantly,
for ourselves in our lockdown, it is one of the major frustrations and
challenges in all that we are coping with that our friends cannot come alongside us – at least
not physically. However, it struck me as I listened to that small group of
Christians (all of whom I knew) sharing their personal trials of lockdown I was
now in a better position as a friend to pray for each of them. Of course, you could
argue that with a bit of imagination and empathy I probably could have guessed
what might be challenging for them in the current situation! That is true and
yet somehow actually hearing them say it, and share it openly and honestly,
brought home the need in fuller measure and I hope will inform and fuel my
prayers for them. It is one of the best things a Christian friend can do for
another – bring them and their needs to the Lord in prayer.
In light of that, let me encourage you to consider doing a
couple of things. Maybe in these challenging days there is someone within the church
family or indeed beyond you might look for an opportunity to ask – is there something
I might be praying for you just now? Or indeed is there someone you might
approach and let them know of something you are finding a particular trial and ask
them to pray for you? There is always a
risk in opening up in these ways to someone else but these are simple and yet potentially
hugely significant ways of supporting and being supported during the trials of
lockdown and also in living the Christian life in general. Such mutual, prayerful
support is meant to be part of the fellowship of faith, as James will point out
to us as we go through his letter.
Secondly, I wanted to mention was something I came across
just this morning as I went to write this message. The Good Book company sent
out an email about a new devotional book by Tim Chester that has just come out
in which he quotes words and prayers from Christians from earlier centuries,
particularly the 16th and 17th centuries. In the
advertising material some words from William Bridge (1600-70) from his book A
lifting up of the downcast sounded wise and encouraging for us in our
different trials, and perhaps especially in our sense of isolation:
If you want to avoid being discouraged in any condition,
then never link your comforts to your condition … Hang a cloak or garment upon
a rotten peg, and the peg will break, and the garment will fall. Now there is
no condition that is not like a rotten peg. Every condition is alterable. No
condition is so firm and fast that it is not exposed to many changes or to a
rotten hold. God, however, is a pillar … If you build upon Christ himself and
upon God himself then you build upon the Rock. And, though the floods and
storms and winds rise and beat upon you, yet you shall not lose your comforts
because they are built upon a rock.
Our trials during lockdown, and in life, will have served us
well & proved good friends to us, if they drive us deeper into Christ, who
in the words of another 17th century Christian, Isaac Ambrose (1604-64)
is ‘the centre of heaven’s happiness –
beauty to the eyes, music to the ears, honey to the mouths, perfume to the nostrils,
health to the bodies, joy to the souls, light to the understanding, contentment
to the wills’ of his people.
Yours in Him,
David
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